Last week, as you may know, sucked. The therapies and the orthotics and just some of the day to day… feeling ridiculously overwhelmed. I had several people tell me I needed to give myself a break. I needed to take time for myself away from Stevie. I needed to remember to do things for myself – not be so hard on myself.
I think the fourth person who said this to me was Stevie’s physical therapist. I nodded and smiled and even tried to hold back tears. Things that immediately went through my brain:
Why does everyone think I need a break?
Are they saying I can’t handle this?
Do I look burned out?
What is everyone trying to say??
And later that day I had a meltdown. Felt a bit like this inside.
OK, so everyone was right. Good for all of you.
Unfortunately, my whole sad, snotty cry-fest happened right before Paul was leaving for a weekend in Vegas, which just made it all sting a little more. He wouldn’t be home to give me any sort of break, but I know he needs to have some fun too. So I anxiously look forward to our anniversary in September. READ: A trip is being planned. Just me and the huz. Out of town. On a plane. Overnight in a hotel. I can’t wait.
To top off my unfortunate week, on Saturday I broke my camera & flash by dropping it on concrete. Did that seriously just happen?! Yup. Broken. To make myself feel better, Stevie and I hit up Disneyland on Sunday. It was good until the end of the day when Stevie lost his glasses. Nowhere to be found. This morning I smooshed my thumb in the stroller.
If you need me, I’ll have my head buried under the covers. At least until Thursday.